Article by Dr. Les Hollon, Pastor, Trinity Baptist Church

 

My grandmother was a praying person.  Lives were shaped by how she prayed in her Dublin boarding house & in the First Baptist Church.  One of those prayers got a hold of my life. 

 

When Dad was growing up, my grandmother prayed that he would become a minister.  When she realized that he was going to be a lawyer, she began to pray that one of his children would become a minister.  While I was growing up, Dad told me the first half of her prayer but he did not convey the prayer’s second half until I was in seminary.  My response was that “It just took both of us to fulfill all of what Mamosh was praying.”

 

In light of this, when Dad passed away, he gave me the office furniture he had used in his law office.  Which is what I now use in my office at Trinity.  I’m grateful that who I am today is directly related to the worshiping influence of my family’s heritage.

 

Worship is the holy experience of encountering God.  Through worship: We pray & praise.  We yield & trust.  We love & forgive.  We sing & commit.  We give & share.  We baptize & confess.  We speak & testify.  We lead & serve.  We preach & act.  We listen & connect.  We greet & befriend.  We repent & celebrate.  We read & respond.  We gather & go.  These and more are worshiping ways for us to have the holy experience of encountering God.

 

God wants us to have times when we worship as individuals, as families, and as a congregation…

 

As we individually worship, we are shaped individually.  As we engage in family worship, we are shaped as a family.  As we congregationally worship, we are shaped as a church family.  How we worship brings all three of these together.  Worshipfully connecting our family to God allows us to:

 

1) Be shaped by God;

2) Know each other in light of how God knows us;

3) Creates the basis of trust among family members. 

 

Pastor Les Hollon

 

The LORD Calls Samuel

The boy Samuel ministered before the LORD under Eli. In those days the word of the LORD was rare; there were not many visions.

One night Eli, whose eyes were becoming so weak that he could barely see, was lying down in his usual place.  The lamp of God had not yet gone out, and Samuel was lying down in the temple of the LORD, where the ark of God was.  Then the LORD called Samuel. 

Samuel answered, “Here I am.”  And he ran to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.” 

But Eli said, “I did not call; go back and lie down.”  So he went and lay down.

Again the LORD called, “Samuel!”  And Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.” 

“My son,” Eli said, “I did not call; go back and lie down.”

Now Samuel did not yet know the LORD: The word of the LORD had not yet been revealed to him.

The LORD called Samuel a third time, and Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.” 

Then Eli realized that the LORD was calling the boy.  So Eli told Samuel, “Go and lie down, and if he calls you, say, ‘Speak, LORD, for your servant is listening.’ “So Samuel went and lay down in his place.

The LORD came and stood there, calling as at the other times, “Samuel! Samuel!” 

Then Samuel said, “Speak, for your servant is listening.

-1 Samuel 3:1-10 (NIV)

 

Samuel lay down until morning and then opened the doors of the house of the LORD.  He was afraid to tell Eli the vision, but Eli called him and said, “Samuel, my son.” 

Samuel answered, “Here I am.”

“What was it he said to you?” Eli asked.  “Do not hide it from me.  May God deal with you, be it ever so severely, if you hide from me anything he told you.”   So Samuel told him everything, hiding nothing from him.  Then Eli said, “He is the LORD; let him do what is good in his eyes.”

The LORD was with Samuel as he grew up, and he let none of his words fall to the ground.   And all Israel from Dan to Beersheba recognized that Samuel was attested as a prophet of the LORD.     The LORD continued to appear at Shiloh, and there he revealed himself to Samuel through his word.

-1 Samuel 3:15-21 (NIV)

 

This article was written by Les Hollon, Pastor of Trinity Baptist Church.  For more information about God and your place in His world, contact Dr. Hollon, click over to Trinity Baptist Church.

 

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Posted on 2 February, 2010 in Finance & Family, Spirituality
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Article by Dr. Les Hollon, Pastor, Trinity Baptist Church

 

Family.  When you hear the word “family,” what do you think and feel?

 

I’m convinced that family strengths can continue to strengthen us throughout our lives. What enables the family positive to remain positive in our lives?  The key is to accept “the blessing” and live “the blessing” …

 

I’m also convinced that “unfinished family issues” will play themselves out until we deal with them.  How?  The key is intentionally to live beyond “the family shadow” … 

 

When I am working with engaged couples, in premarital counseling, we talk through the foundational issues that can form a lifelong covenant for a successful marriage.  Among the five practical issues is our family of origin:

 

•”What are qualities from your first family you want to build into your married family”?

• “What are the family traits that you want to shed”?

• “How do you answer these questions about your fiancé’s family”? Read More »

Posted on 24 January, 2010 in Finance & Family, Happiness, Spirituality
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Article by Dr. Les Hollon, Pastor, Trinity Baptist Church

 

Time is a family gift. Time is a God-provided resource for us to use purposefully.  Time is a way of measuring the meaning of our lives.  Time is for love, worship, work, and re-creation.  

 

Of the 24 hours in each day, the average amount of television watched by an individual recently increased 3 minutes per day to 4 hours & 35 minutes (Nielsen Media Research).  That is more than one day per week that people sit in front of a TV set. 

 

Therefore, let’s talk about time, faith, and the television. Read More »

Posted on 21 January, 2010 in Finance & Family, Parenting, Spirituality
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Article by Dr. Les Hollon, Pastor, Trinity Baptist Church

 

Family is God’s gift of opportunity.

 

The opportunity is for us to form loving, meaningful, and enjoyable relationships.  What we do with family is our choice to make and how we make that choice goes a long way to shape our own happiness or unhappiness.

 

Consequently let’s work to get it right.

 

Family life is complicated. There’s no easy way to be and do family life.  But there are best ways and bad ways from which to choose.

 

Family life - God’s gift to us - is also meant to be our gift back to God and for each other.  There are four basic blessings that each family can give in order to win as a family:

 

1) focus & faithfulness;

2) delight in each other;

3) memories worth keeping;

4) growth & opportunities. 

 

Family life is also meant to be our gift back to God and for one another.  As a family, let’s trust God’s promises with such devotion that we succeed with each other and we help each family to succeed.

 

Pastor Les Hollon

 

Jesus then left that place and went into the region of Judea and across the Jordan. Again crowds of people came to him, and as was his custom, he taught them.  Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?”  What did Moses command you?” he replied.

They said, “Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away.”

It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law,” Jesus replied. “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’  So they are no longer two, but one.  Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.”

- Mark 10:1-9 (NIV)

 

People were bringing little children to Jesus to have him touch them, but the disciples rebuked them.  When Jesus saw this, he was indignant.  He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.  I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”  And he took the children in his arms, put his hands on them and blessed them.

- Mark 10:13-16 (NIV)

 

This article was written by Les Hollon, Pastor of Trinity Baptist Church.  For more information about God and your place in His world, contact Dr. Hollon, click over to Trinity Baptist Church.

 

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Posted on 15 January, 2010 in Finance & Family, Spirituality
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Article by Dr. Les Hollon, Pastor, Trinity Baptist Church

 

Families in America spend billions of dollars to communicate.  We travel to see, touch and talk in person.  We speed dial to talk with our mobile devices.  We text to get and give quick information.  We tweet to be concise.

 

What are we saying with all of these efforts?  Well … a lot.

 

Bottom line, we are saying to each other that being understood and understanding is important to us.  To be effective we need to talk through matters that are important to us … even when the matters are initially difficult to discuss.

 

Condensing the thickest and best books on family research reveals that the healthiest families are not those who avoid talking about difficult subjects.  Instead it’s the families who can lovingly and respectfully talk through the difficulties that develop the strongest bonds.

 

Families who build from their strengths create the additional strength to work through any difficulties that show up.  Families can then live with a confidence of trust … and not be shackled by fear of the un-discussed.  Family members who trust each other are those who have the freedom to love without fear.  Which is when family life becomes fun. Read More »

Posted on 11 January, 2010 in Finance & Family, Spirituality
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